January, 2008

Infatuation Versus Love


Infatuation Versus Love (part 3)…

Infatuation
lacks confidence. When he/she’s away, you wonder if he/she’s cheating.
Some of you even check. Love means trust. You are calm, secure and
unthreatened. He/she feels that trust, and it makes him/her even more
trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you’ll regret
later, but love never will.
Love lifts you up. It makes you look up. It
makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. (http://date.lifetips.com/cat/9434/falling-in-love/)

some might say this topic is so cheap…boring…and it doesn’t make any sense… but for some who wants to know the difference between infatuation and love might say this could, somehow, help…

Infatuation versus love…
Love versus infatuation…

You will never know the meaning of those two undefinable "feelings" (love and infatuation) unless you experience it.

Make a self-check…

From my experiences, I would say that I already experienced both…

And, YES, LOVE really differs from INFATUATION…

LOVE teaches you to understand things that are difficult to understand…It teaches you to accept… and have so much patience…

INFATUATION would teach you to be happy…just to be happy…but not totally happy. No trust at all… Full of regrets…

Be strong… Evaluate yourself…Be smart enough to differentiate things…Trust yourself.

never say die!!!

big girls don’t cry

…i wonder if big girls really don’t cry…

…i wish to be a big girl now…

:(

Big Girls Don’t Cry

Da Da Da Da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
Your probably on your flight back to your home town
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
To be with myself and center, clarity
Peace, Serenity

[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It’s personal, Myself and I
We’ve got some straightenin’ out to do
And I’m gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But Ive got to get a move on with my life
Its time to be a big girl now
And big girls don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry

The path that I’m walking
I must go alone
I must take the baby steps until I’m full grown
Fairytales don’t always have a happy ending, do they
And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay

[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It’s personal, Myself and I
We’ve got some straightenin’ out to do
And I’m gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I’ve got to get a move on with my life
Its time to be a big girl now
And big girls don’t cry

Like the little school mate in the school yard
We’ll play jacks and uno cards
Ill be your best friend and you’ll be mine
Valentine
Yes you can hold my hand if u want to
Cause I want to hold yours too
Well be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds
But its time for me to go home
Its getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself and center, clarity
Peace, Serenity

[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It’s personal, Myself and I
We’ve got some straightenin’ out to do
And I’m gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I’ve got to get a move on with my life
Its time to be a big girl now
And big girls don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry

La Da Da Da Da Da